Nothing Wrong With Being An Introvert

Hi , well being an Introvert is basically about you feeling living alone is to to live happy and your prefer hiding in a crowd rather than standing out in one.You are perpetually tormented by idea of doing things wrong , not understanding or not being alert enough or intelligent enough. You lack in self-confidence and you seen to believe that other are better than you. 

Where there's a low level task to complete or a service to be allotted, its you who volunteers. when people want to get out of task, they naturally come to you as they know that you never say 'no'. It's not surprising that you sometime have the impression of being permanently exploited, but you don't really know how to break this vicious circle. 

On the rare occasions that you've tired to do so, this uncharacteristic defiance has cause uproar and you've ended up backing down. You are afraid of contact with others as you imagine that they are constantly judging you and that their probing looks will obviously find your faults.

So, you try to remain the most transport and discreet possible. How far will you take this logic of self-denigration?. Try and stop projecting onto others the bad image you have about yourself, have a god look around you and you'll see that they too have faults, weakness, so stop finding excuses for everything.

Maybe you were brought up in an atmosphere of 'You'll never make the grade' as a child- a poison that you need progressively to get out of your system. Learn to look after your own interest- everyone else does, so why not you ? You too have desires, dream and opinions- express them. If you think that by saying no or thinking  or thinking differently from others that you will no longer be loved, it just isn't so. Others will learn to respect you because you respect yourself.